My nephew's wife wrote a melancholy blog post this morning that would, I suppose, make any mother teary-eyed (Savoring the Smell of Baby For This Too Shall Pass). Those quiet moments with your baby. Rocking, nursing, knowing that it's cold outside but feeling safe inside. You're so close to that little one.
Leigh Ann is smitten by her baby and joyfully dotes on him. Mark, Leigh Ann, and baby Sam have recently returned to their home in Tennessee after spending time with my sister and her family for the holidays, which included a celebration of the baby's first birthday.
Funny. Before reading her post I'd just come downstairs from savoring the smell of my son's room. Actually, I hadn't thought of it as savoring at the time, but I guess that it was. Leigh Ann is right. The baby room smell and feeling did pass. My 22-year-old son left this morning after spending his Christmas break with us, home from graduate school, a 12-hours drive away. His room had been a mess for two weeks. But when I opened the door and stepped into it this morning I was met with the sight of clean floors and tabletops. The only mess was his rumpled bed . . . that I can't stand to launder just yet. It holds the impression and the smell of him. I want to hold on to the feeling of his being here just a little bit longer, to savor it.
I tried not to cry or over-do my goodbyes this morning because, after all, isn't this why we raise them so carefully? So that when they go, we feel they are ready and able. We let them go because this too shall pass and there will be a next chapter and a next.
We took his crib out of the attic for our first grandchild to use this Christmas.We've left it up in the guest room, formerly my daughter's room, and look forward to a visit again soon.
Savor on, Leigh Ann. It's the wonderful purview of motherhood. Hold your children close in body and hold on to the memories. The rooms will change, but you can close your eyes and take those memories out to savor again as needed.
Wednesday, January 4, 2012
Saturday, October 22, 2011
My Prius Turns 100,000 Miles
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99,995 Miles |
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99.996 Miles |
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99,997 Miles |
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99,998 Miles |
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99,999 Miles |
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100.000 at the Cheatham Exit! |
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Changes and a Brave New Blog
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Jamestown Rd. to Rt. 199 |
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7:30 a.m. on the Colonial Parkway |
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8:00 a.m. - Crossing the York River |
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5:30 p.m. - Coming home |
Fortunately, about half of my 56-mile round-trip commute takes me along the Colonial Parkway where that part of me that yearns to be on the waterfront is satisfied. This October, the peaceful views are tinged red-orange. For now my photos are fuzzy and through the car window, but I may be stopping from time to time in the future to capture a more perfect shot.
Tuesday, September 13, 2011
Good Night Irene
Irene visits my neighborhood |
I just read an article in Nature with some news about tying climate and weather together in a more accurate manner. That will be useful. Here's an excerpt:
Heavy weather
Severe storms make the public think of climate change. Scientists must work to evaluate the link.
Extreme weather makes news, as was demonstrated last month by the blanket coverage of the devastation caused to the east coast of the United States by Hurricane Irene. But was the prominence of the story a feature of modern media hype in a rolling-news world? Hardly. According to a New York Times analysis, when Hurricane Andrew made landfall in Florida in 1992 and killed 22 people, it received twice the traditional news coverage that Irene did.
What is new is that coverage of extreme weather is now often accompanied by a question: is this a consequence of climate change? This question was raised frequently after Hurricane Katrina smashed through New Orleans in 2005. Most climate scientists responded equivocally, as scientists do: climate is not weather, and although all extreme weather events are now subject to human influence, global warming driven by greenhouse gases cannot be said to 'cause' any specific manifestation of weather in a simple deterministic sense.
Is that response enough? The question, after all, seems fair, given the dire warnings of worsening weather that are offered to the public as reasons to care about global warming. It may irritate some scientists, but in fact the question can be seen as a vindication of their efforts to spread the message that the climate problem is a clear and present danger. Most people associate the climate with the weather that they experience, even if they aren't supposed to. And they are right to wonder how and why that experience can, on occasion, leave their homes in pieces.
Given the growing interest, it is a good sign that scientists plan to launch a coordinated effort to quickly and routinely assess the extent to which extreme weather events should be attributed to climate change (see page 148). The ambitious idea is in the early stages, and its feasibility is yet to be demonstrated. It will require funding, access to climate data from around the world and considerable computer time. Funding agencies and climate centres must provide the necessary support. [More]
Nature 477, 131–13, (08 September 2011), doi:10.1038/477131b. Published online 07 September 2011.
I look forward to reading more about progress on the ability to attribute storms to climate change.
Saturday, August 13, 2011
Holly with red bark?
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Red-blotched Holly |
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Lichens thrive in harsh environments |
I asked my naturalist friends about the unusual trees at today's bird walk, but no one knew of a holly with red blotches on its bark. Finally, I made it home to do a little Googling. Seems that this wonderful red rash is a growth of that ethereal composite life form called lichen, which is mostly fungus and requires a cooperative arrangement with algae and cyanobacteria in order to survive.
Lichenization is a survival strategy for fungus and it is often found in harsh environments, like the sandy Outer Banks with soil low in nutrition. Most lichens are gray or green, but the red color of this variety is due to light exposure and dry climate. For more about lichens, check out the book Lichens of North America
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